You talk with a lady, and she tells you that she is happy seeing you. She will say, "Please, always stop by to say hi, whenever you are chanced." When you stop by, she asks you questions and you reply. After you leave, she complains that you are stopping by.
I was volunteering in one hospital one time as a chaplain. The administrator told me that she hated to drive because it pained her body. In my capitalistic mindset, I thought to myself that it would be a wonderful opportunity to get many volunteer hours, so I proposed to her to call me anytime she needed a drive. I was shocked to hear from my supervisor that I told her I will drive her around. If not of Christ's sake, I would have walked to her office and told her that she was not even my type. The unfortunate thing is that she never ever showed that she was busy or did not want me there. Each time I saw her, she engaged me in a lengthy conversation. When I don't want someone around, I tell them that, " I am sorry, you always come when I am busy. What is the best time to reach you?"
“Bonyfish beware because the same net that caught the jawless fish, caught the cartilaginous fish” (Hamilton Ayuk). Beware earthly paradise seekers because there is a serpent in every paradise"(Hamilton Ayuk). "If in this life only we have hope in Christ, we are of all men most miserable." (I Cor 15:19). "It is not how well you know a person; it is how well you treat them that they will live longer and happier with you." Hamilton Ayuk. Idle people write, idler people read, and idlest people read and whine that idle people are taking their time (Hamilton Ayuk).