American Men Do Not Know How TO Treat Their Women.

American Men Do Not Know How TO Treat Their Women.

While this is too much generalization, but the majority of American men do not know how to treat their women. Most of their women have never really experienced proper good treatment where a man makes you feel like you are the oasis of his whole desert, or when a man makes you feel like all the other women he sees outside are dung. That is probably why when their women venture out of the country and see the treatment foreign men give them outside, they get confused. If you go to Europe, they believe that American women are easy, very easy even because the women who travel out cannot resist such regal treatment. In America ,when you treat women too good like a man should treat a lady, they get confused and run away because they think you are faking. They don‘t believe it will be the same; they even think you are a wolf in sheep clothing. Take for instance; when an American man takes a woman out for a date today, he pays for the expenses, and when they go out the next time, she pays for the expenses. Who is that foreign man that will even do souch a criminal act?   To make a conclusion, I will compare a traditional African man with a traditional American man. Would you want to know why I think American men do not know how to treat their women?

When an American woman meets a foreign man, she is treated like a queen or princess even though most don’t even know how the monarchs are treated. I don’t mean when some obese and overweight American woman entraps a foreign guy who is merely using her for expediency to get papers which once he gets them, he starts to maltreat her or even vamoose into the oblivion. He will treat her badly so that she will divorce him, and he will go his way. That is not what I am talking about. I am talking about normal foreign men and normal American women.

Communication is very important in human life, but most of their men are so ignorant that they quickly go out of words. That is why their normal conversations with a woman do not go more than 3 minutes without it turning to sex. See, even their songs too are just 4 minutes long even when they are singing about love. If they do not talk sex, they curse -f..k. I worked with two guys one time,  a stepdad and a stepson. The stepson says "you know that bitch Ron is married to is my mom." The stepdad says, "you got that right. His own bitch does not give him problems like mine." The son calls the mother bitch and the husband calls the wife bitch. What type of people are these?

The guys must learn to keep the woman up too with their discourse. It is not every time that the woman wants to hear about sex; not even the nymphomaniacs. They will run away and then go to the guy that comes in their normal behavior. Perhaps the only good thing some of these men have is a good body. Having a good body is good but without a good character, it is body mass.

Although in traditional African society, the men and women were complimentary in roles and responsibilities, a good man who knew how to treat a lady did not allow her to do the heavy duties in and around the house. Men are there to make their women feel special everyday. Consequently, the man went to the farm and cleared the forest. The kitchen had simple stuffs and so the man was out in the forest hunting for game for the woman to come and prepare. In America, the woman is doing the dishes and ironing clothes, while the man is playing video games and watching football. A man killed his infant son for bothering him during his video game. At times it is even the woman who takes out the thrash, vacuums the house, and clears the yard with the lawnmower; responsibilities that a man should joyfully do. If a woman was not married, her brothers or male friends cut her grass for her, but no reasonable man saw a woman struggling to cut her grass and he passed. So if your sister is not married, go and cut her grass for her as a brother or friend.

Have you seen an American man and his wife at the grocery store? Pathetic and pitiful. The man is pushing the cart in the market or grocery store while the woman is carrying their baby. Which is heavier and more difficult? Pushing a cart or trying to keep the restless child? The American men allow the women to be struggling with the child while they are pushing the cart and strolling in the supermarket looking at other women. Why shouldn’t they do that? He has no weight. If he had a baby in his hand, he will not be looking around and winking at other women while at the store.

One time I saw a couple broken down on the highway. The woman was pushing the car while the man was sitting in the car. Lord have mercy! That is the opposite guys. I told him to step outside and let the woman sit inside while we pushed the car. If you are a weakling, call people to come and help you, but for God’s sake don’t allow your wife to push the car while you are sitting in the car.

In traditional African society, the woman was the main organizer.  The women taught morals and the men taught strength, brute strength. Both the men and women were the teachers but at different levels. The men taught on how to provide and the women taught on how to organize what has been provided and to convert it to greater proportions. In traditional African society, the women were respected and treated with much respect because they believed that they were closer to God than the men. They were considered goddesses. That is why there were goddesses of fertility, rain, and harvest.

Despite the complimentarityy of roles and responsibilities, the head of the family had always been the man. Failure to follow that has plunged the American marriages into chaos, and divorces have rocked their world. Being the head of household does not mean autocracy, for no good leader rules alone. Decisions came by consensus. The reason why marriages between Africans and Africans are falling apart  in an alarming rate is because most of their women have not been able to reconcile the American culture with the traditional African society they come from. That is why mixed marriages between the Africans and Americans are faring better than marriages between African and Africans.

Furthermore, American men are not easily satisfied. That is why they have these strip clubs and toys all over the place. Once a woman gains a little weight like this, it is a big problem. More women are in the gym, but their men are at home writing letters on the internet to Russia for Mail Order Bride. Obese and overweight men trying to marry Russian models. Ichabod!

Finally, most women in America are killed by their husbands or boyfriends. Read the rest here. This is an excerpt below that I have for you. .

On average, more than three women are murdered by their husbands or boyfriends in this country every day. 40% / percent of teenage girls age 14 to 17 report knowing someone their age who has been hit or beaten by a boyfriend. 60% of young women, ages 15 to 24, were currently involved in an ongoing abusive relationship and all participants had experienced violence in a dating relationship.

The men are so demanding almost like the women. A woman should be more demanding than a man. It is sacrilege for the man to be more demanding like American men. Soon they say we are taking their women. Why shouldn’t we if you will be treating your women like nothing? We will soon make you all single. If not of sin, we will seize even those that are married.

Until then, I pray that God will help men to treat their women well.

Prince & PA Hamilton Ayuk
“Bonyfish beware because the same net that caught the jawless fish, caught the cartilaginous fish” (Hamilton Ayuk). Beware earthly paradise seekers because there is a serpent in every paradise"(Hamilton Ayuk). Idle people write, idler people read, and idlest people read and whine that idle people are taking their time (Hamilton Ayuk).